Just how do you win someone back?
You’re reading this because you are looking online for a way to get back together with someone you love very much.
Before you can get back with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, you need to take a step back and figure out exactly where, how and why your relationship went wrong in the first place.
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With new relationships especially, an abrupt ending might be a temporary thing. It could be that one or both of you might still be wondering if the relationship ended too soon.
If that is the case, you will also be wondering how to win back your ex girlfriend , or maybe get your wife back or even how to get an ex back who dumped you.
Before you turn to breakup poems as a means of healing heartbreak, or saying prayers to get your ex back (these are last resort and somewhat desperate attempts at getting back together again and might cause further damage than do good), here are a few pointers that might help you to win back your lost love.
Steps To Win Someone Back
Let’s assume you are a man and you really want to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
First of all you should be clear in your own mind as to the real reason you want to get back together with her again.
Are you trying to get back together because:
- you love your girlfriend?
- you don’t want to be alone?
- you want to get her back so that you can dump her (and get your own revenge)
The only reason you should ever get back together again with your ex is for love.
Any other reason is wrong.
So, if you were looking to get back together with your ex because you didn’t want to be alone for Christmas, sorry but this is a poor reason.
You will be splitting up again in the future anyway – so avoid going through the breakup pain all over again and accept that your relationship is over.
If your reasons for getting back together with your ex are because you truly love her and can’t live without her, then the following steps might help:
1. Don’t appear needy!
Women hate to see a crying, whining and desperate man. Even if you are pining for her, a woman would prefer to see a show of masculine strength and quiet inner resolve rather than a blubbering man.
Don’t beg, or cry and do not stalk or taunt her either.
Some men go too far the other way and show a nasty inner side.
2. Control your feelings
Be strong and you might have a chance.
Show her that you are a crying, whimpering, self-pitying man and she will want to run a mile.
3. Keep communication lines open
By giving your ex her space, and by not coming across as too needy, by not deluging her with phone calls, texts or emails – your ex will respect you even more.
Keep communication lines open so that if SHE feels the need to call you, text you or email you – she can.
Just make sure you have the discipline to stop yourself from reaching for the phone and calling her first.
These are just a few tips but they really can help you on the road to winning your girlfriend back.
Many men, especially after the initial breakup when the hurt is raw, find it hard dealing with a breakup and will do anything to get back together again. Sometimes, if they act too soon, their emotions get the better of them and they come across as desperate men who say the wrong things.
By using the tips above, you will be able to hold your head up high (even though your heart might be hurting) and still make your ex feel as though you are there for her should she need to get back in touch.
And this is how you set the stage for winning someone back.
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